Life and Marriage- Do I stay or Do I leave/

With this ring

For our 20th wedding anniversary, we decided to do something not many were doing at the time, and that is get ring tattoos. Is was a pretty big deal because my husband hates tattoos. This fact puzzles me because this guy lived an outrageous life well into his early 30’s. One of those “you’ll never… Continue reading With this ring

Life and Marriage- Do I stay or Do I leave/

Dear Her, She, OW

Dear Other Woman/Women,  There have been many letters written to you, her, and she –  many. We, the BS pour our hearts and feelings out; You and your group of single, sexy, friends laugh at the words, delight at the words we so nakedly proclaim, oh-so-funny. You pretend not to care, act as if you are… Continue reading Dear Her, She, OW

Life and Marriage- Do I stay or Do I leave/

December 07, 2017 How Long Has It Been?

I’m not sure how long it’s been since we, I’ve touched base with you. But, since i tend to be “wordy” I’m going straight to “it” to update a bit. I don’t remember if I’ve mentioned affairs, I know I’ve mentioned drinking, geeze, who knows and I’m not going through the last post, it will… Continue reading December 07, 2017 How Long Has It Been?

Life and Marriage- Do I stay or Do I leave/

My Story before it’s done

Do you believe in God? Because I do. Do you think that God cares about your marriage, your children? Do you think he cares where you live, go to school, work? I do. I believe he cares, I believe in God, AND I have a personal relationship with Jesus. So, some ask, why am I so… Continue reading My Story before it’s done

Life and Marriage- Do I stay or Do I leave/

Cheating Spouse, Faithful Spouse

We are here, he and I, we are at our vacation home, our place of rest. The place we go for a quick get away or an extended stay when it’s time to replenish our stressed, harried body and thoughts. I love it here; I also hate it, I have a bag full of mixed… Continue reading Cheating Spouse, Faithful Spouse

Life and Marriage- Do I stay or Do I leave/

Rest, oh rest, where are you?

As a young teen, I would self-harm before it was even “a thing,” not that person who inflict pain upon themselves do so for attention; I’m just saying that before cutting, punching and hurting one-self was known I would engage. (It’s not a contest, I’m not trying to “win” for those who might be suggesting. )  I was… Continue reading Rest, oh rest, where are you?

Life and Marriage- Do I stay or Do I leave/

Hope, Hope, where are you?

It’s been a while since I’ve posted, I don’t know what happened, I just lost the oomph it takes to open my thoughts and put them into words. In addition to the holidays and the busyness, holidays bring, I just couldn’t gather the courage to face all these feelings that won’t leave me alone. They nag… Continue reading Hope, Hope, where are you?

Life and Marriage- Do I stay or Do I leave/

How does death affect life?

I’m not exactly sure why but there is something about losing a loved one that causes days to look differently. It’s hard to explain, but most people will agree. I’m talking literally; for instance, driving in your car, pull up to a stoplight and looking to your left. There, in the car beside you sits… Continue reading How does death affect life?