Life and Marriage- Do I stay or Do I leave/

As I continued on

pretending not to know what was going on in your life, I would scour the internet, looking for the magic cure  “how to  love  your spouse.” I read and re-read my journals and notes, looking for more information that I might have missed. I would search our conversations of when you returned from a weekend… Continue reading As I continued on

Life and Marriage- Do I stay or Do I leave/

Dear you: and this is where God rushed in

Dear One, I continue  this letter to you and want to explain the reason that I am here. Still. First, I will not take blame for your decision to go wander outside of our marriage; I will take blame for the ugly that I allowed in our marriage.   You were away at the vacation… Continue reading Dear you: and this is where God rushed in

Life and Marriage- Do I stay or Do I leave/

Dear You – Dear Her

I have filled many journals with letters to you. Page after page with words that seem to repeat themselves. Usually, after writing, I will close the journal, set it aside for a day or two and then go back to re-read before I hand it off to you.  Most of those letters have remained in… Continue reading Dear You – Dear Her

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The intention of my previous post

… was to talk about the way our society has glorified marital affairs. You know = infidelity, cheating, lying, having sex with somebody else’s spouse. Don’t believe me? Listen to the songs on your radio, turn on your television, rent a movie. It is everywhere and we’ve made it okay. It has always been this way… Continue reading The intention of my previous post

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The whole truth and nothing but

Surviving Infidelity   I’ve received a few emails asking if I am okay, where I’ve been, will I be back? The answers are: Yes, nowhere exciting and yes.   The first week of September, I brought my Life-Loving daughter, the youngest, R to College. The following week the older daughter graduated from her college. Life… Continue reading The whole truth and nothing but